Series: Dating Ideas Summer 2011: Lanesboro, Minnesota
One of the struggles couples have is not finding time alone and getting away from the home front to have fun together. Having new experiences creates new memories and bonding times.
I suggest to couples I see that they find a time to get Out-of-Dodge once a quarter 4 times per year). Some will go on vacation together or to a business conference once a year, but that isn’t often enough. If you are lonely in September and your annual vacation or conference together is not until March, looking forward to that is not much comfort.
But if you went somewhere together in August and you have a trip coming up in early November, you can look back on the one you had and look forward to the one coming up so you can keep encouraged during a difficult time to hang in there and approach your daily burdens with a little more fortitude, grace and good humor. That keeps everyone’s spirits in a proper place.
These quarterly trips don’t have to cost a lot of money, either. The trip I’m reporting on today is a case in point. We camped out at a private campground in SE Minnesota over Labor Day weekend. Camping kept the costs to a minimum. We had one day of rain, but that became our explore-the-other-towns day in our full-sized van and by evening it was clear and we were able to have our traditional campfire.
There’s nothing like relaxing around a campfire. Park rules prevented us from bringing our firewood, so we had to buy firewood at the campground. It’s a good thing I brought an ax because the firewood wouldn’t have burned so gracefully without a little splitting to make them more manageable sizes. Chopping the firewood was part of the fun.
The camping trip over Labor Day is becoming a tradition in our family, with my sister and brother-in-law, Cindi and Craig, out of White Bear Lake, Minnesota. The year before we explored NE Iowa with my uncle Al and Aunt Sharon and the year before with my uncle and his wife, we drove our motorcycles over to Madison County and Pella, Iowa, while camping at Adventureland Campground in Altoona, Iowa. A few years prior to that Cindi and Craig and I rode our motorcycles to the Apostle Islands area near Bayfield, Wisconsin. This year we brought the motorcycle and scooters along and bopped around the area. It was quite beautiful, with the bluffs and hills and river and corn rows and apple orchards.
These kinds of traditions give us things to look forward to and to plan for. The thinking about them in other seasons becomes their own little vacation! We’re hitting new areas each year and discovering new places and sites and fun things to do and great places to eat.
Lanesboro is considered the Bed and Breakfast Capital of Minnesota. Throw in the Root River Trail, which is considered the top bicycle trail in the state of Minnesota and you’ve got two top draws. With the scenery and the recreational opportunities, it’s easy to see why it’s a great spot to visit. In addition, the town has a significant Amish presence and there are tours to learn more about them firsthand. We went to the local farmer’s market (sorry no pics of that) on Saturday which had a strong Amish presence. They had very unique items, all homemade, of course.
Here’s a few pics to highlight our trip. I hope it’ll encourage you to get out of the house with your wife or husband and discover new things!
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