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Dr. Wall Organizes His Blogs….Finally!

Dr. Wall straightens out his blogs so it’s a little easier to find the various series he’s done.   He breathes of sigh of relief.

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Part Fourteen: Living As Roommates: The Fundamental Difference Between Roommates and Husbands and Wives

Dr. Wall explains two paradigms in marriage: One works. One doesn’t. This is another in a series comparing Living as Roommates vs. Living as Husband and Wives.  For the entire series click here.  For the first in the series click here.

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Part Thirteen: Living As Roommates: Loving Without Strings

Dr. Wall responds to a reader’s questions regarding our last blog on “Loving With Dignity And Grace, Part II.” The reader asks what good is this love if it is not returned? This question really gets at the heart of what it means to enjoy your life vs. living in a private hell.  This the [...]

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Part Twelve: Living As Roommates: Love With Dignity and Grace, Part II

Dr. Wall continues his series contrasting two trajectories for marriage: Living as roommates or living as husband and wives, by commenting on the nature of true love. It’s the only way to go. The options aren’t very appealing.  This is part two on “Love With Dignity and Grace.”  For part one click here.  To start [...]

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Part Eleven: Living As Roommates: Love With Dignity and Grace

Dr. Wall continues his series on living as married roommates vs. living as husband and wife by looking at just a few of the consequences of divorce. Married roommates too often divorce without ever learning really how to love. He suggests, maybe, just maybe, we should learn how to REALLY love while we are married.

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Part Ten: Living As Roommates: The Great Tension in Meaningful Martial Sexuality

Dr. Wall explains what the great tension in meaningful marital sexuality is, what happens when it doesn’t work and what happens when it does. This is part of a larger series of blogs on living as roommates vs. living as husband and wives. For the other blogs in this series click here.

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Part Nine: Living As Roommates: A Primer on Sexual Desire

Dr. Wall continues his series on roommates vs. husbands and wives (for others in this series click here) by explaining how our changing sexual desire patterns over our lifetimes can be a source of hurt and divorce or vitality and enhancement. Fluctuating sexual desire gives us a chance to demonstrate either a giving spirit or [...]

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Part Eight: Living As Roommates: The Foundation of Meaningful, Marital Sexuality

In Dr. Wall’s last blog he exposed some of the hurtful thoughts, feelings and actions around sexuality that create havoc in marriage. He suggested that married couples who live this way are really living as roommates instead of husband and wife (for the other blogs in this series click here). What does sexuality and marriage [...]

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Part Seven: Living As Roommates: Easy Ways to Destroy Your Marriage Using Sex As A CLUB

Dr. Wall continues his series on living as roommates vs. living as husband and wife (This is the seventh.  Click here for the others.) by exposing the hurt, misunderstanding, selfishness and cavalier attitudes roommates have about sexuality.

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Part Six: Living As Roommates: Housekeeping Gone Mad

In this continuing series on living as roommates instead of husband and wife (for the rest of the blogs in this series click here), Dr. Wall exposes how living as roommates carries over into the area of housekeeping. It isn’t pretty. Proceed with caution.

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