Good or Evil from an Affair

A man’s own folly ruins his life, yet his heart rages against the LORD. Proverbs 19:3 The other morning I was driving from my office in Ames, Iowa to my office in Urbandale, Iowa, about 40 miles away.  Once in awhile on these trips I’ll call and chat with my son...

The Wickedness of An Affair

Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud. Proverbs 18:12 When wickedness comes, so does contempt, and with shame comes disgrace. Proverbs 18:3 It happens too often.  One of the sad things I have to endure.  It’s one thing to be the victim of other peoples’...

Guard Your Heart

Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. Proverbs 4:23 This verse is the cornerstone of my philosophy of helping couples deal with affair and pornography issues.  It’s amazing that even after Former President Bill Clinton’s embarrassing...