When we had several major stresses appear in our lives, I was at a crisis point and took it out on our marriage. Dr. Wall pointed out that bringing job stress home with me wasn’t fair to either of us or our family, and gave us tools by which we could discuss the tension without losing control of the situation. We found out that even after 18 years of marriage, we could use lessons in communication- for that we will remain very grateful. I see the techniques he gave us staying with us forever as long as we continue to appreciate their value, and recommend his method of marital counseling to anyone feeling they need a fresh approach in dealing with a troubled relationship. Husband: retired engineer; Wife: medical profession.
After a four month separation, my husband and I decided to try one more time to make our marriage work. Two weeks later, it was obvious we needed help, or a divorce was imminent. A friend recommended Bing Wall, and my husband and I went to see him. Bing was wonderful! He listened to both our stories, and let us get our feelings out. Then he began to give us the tools we needed to save our marriage. Without Bing’s help, we would have become just another statistic–one more “single mom,” and one more “weekend dad.” Bing Wall saved our marriage, and gave our children back the happy, secure childhood they deserve. Thanks to Bing, my husband and I now have the communication skills to keep us loving each other, and respecting each other. Married 12 years, Husband: Management; Wife: Advertising
When we first called Bing Wall I didn’t know where (our) marriage was headed except downhill. All we did was have very hateful fights…Finally, I told (my husband) that we either get help or get a divorce. That led us to Bing. Since our first visit…we both feel we’ve come a long (way)…We also realize we still have a ways to go, but at least now we can see the light at the end of the tunnel. We still are having arguments and eruptions, but at least now they are much smaller, …and are getting farther and farther apart. We have gone from being almost completely negative to almost completely positive with our lives. We are now going to church regularly and meeting a few people here in our community. Through coming to Bing we have come to realize that we both have to change and allow our lives to grow. But we also realize that this will allow us as a couple to grow stronger and closer. Married 1 year; Husband: Factory Worker; Wife: Day Care Provider
Bing has given us the positive counseling we need to survive the difficult challenges of an addiction, plus the communication tools to solve our own problems and enjoy a happy marriage ahead of us. His Christian-based principles, friendly ear, and confidential atmosphere make marriage counseling a pleasant experience with lasting effects– his services would be helpful to anyone in any stage of a relationship. We consider Heart to Heart Communication to be a priceless investment in our family! Married 5 years; Husband: Consultant; Wife: Editor
Bing did a great job helping me with anxiety. I had been crippled with panic attacks to the point that I was only able to go to work and home again. Even going to the store was a major challenge and I had not been outside my home town alone for a number of years. Anxiety was the number one cause of the breakup of my previous relationship. Bing helped me understand what anxiety was and how it had been affecting my life. I learned what my life could be instead and in a step-by-step process began to deal with the negative thoughts in my head. We dealt with the root causes and did not just put a band-aid on it. Because I was single again, I also had to learn to deal with the loss of my relationship, to heal and to be content with who I am as a single person. I still have a ways to go, but am excited that I can be OK with being single for now. The panic of being single again is gone and I am learning how to relax, to seek friendship and to be a whole person. As a result of seeing Bing, I feel, without a doubt, like I’m coming away as a better and stronger person. Single male, 32, Business Owner
We walked into our first counseling session with little hope that our marriage of 8 years would be able to be saved. We both had already spoken with our lawyers about a divorce, and both thought that divorce was the only answer. Bing helped us realize that we still had a lot of things in common, and had reasons to stay together. After helping us recognize the patterns that we had fallen into, and being taught methods to get out of those patterns, things began to improve for us. He helped us to see that we could both come to a happy middle ground, rather than each taking the extreme position. Several techniques we learned helped us to talk through problems rather than fight our way through them. Before, arguments were usually one-sided with one of us doing all the arguing, and the other simply withdrawing from the conversation. We (are now) able to make our conversations more productive and more fulfilling for both. We were so happy with the results we obtained from our counseling sessions with Bing, that we have recommended his services to other couples going through similar marital problems. Thanks to Bing’s help we will be celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary (together) in October.” Married 8 years; Husband: Computer Specialist; Wife: Law Enforcement
When we came to Bing we didn’t (think we had) much of a marriage left. We were ready to divorce and felt that if there was going to be a marriage to save we needed counseling. One of us was pretty hesitant about the counseling idea, however. After a few sessions we began to see some positive changes in our relationship. The communication tools that Bing helped to demonstrate and have us practice, were extremely beneficial. We have started to get closer to one another again, and it has helped us to be more in love. (This was encouraging to us, especially) after building such destructive relationship patterns (prior to coming to therapy). We feel Heart to Heart has allowed us to build a strong healthy relationship as part of a building block to a complete future for (our) family. Married 4 years; Husband: Self-employed; Wife: Counselor
