Dr. Bing has been a marriage therapist in the Ames and Des Moines area for over 23 years. He began the Thriving Couples Blog to help couples to not just to survive their marriage but to thriving in their marriage. For over 10 years, Bing has written hundreds of articles about relationships, commitment, communcation, building trust, dating, sex, and what it takes to have a wonderful and fullfilling marriage.
Dr. Bing doesn’t hold back though. He is a big defender of taking responsibility for your own life and to not use the victim card as a way to justify treating your spouse unkindly. Having a thriving marriage is going to be hard work, but it is meaningful hard work and is worth it in the long run. So, take some time to read through the many articles throughout this site.
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Dr. Bing explains trust violations are hard for couples to handle alone, but with some outside guidance and gentle nudging many couples can heal and even thrive after an affair.read more
This certainly isn’t the reason I went into marital therapy…to see couples break up. It turns out I’m not a miracle worker. Some folk come to see me too late to save things. It’s a pretty crazy time . . .read more
Dr. Bing explains why building trust is so difficult, but encourages that it can be done.read more
I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt, that the world will not end on December 21, 2012. Sorry to break it to you. I’m not quite sure how the Lord’s gonna work this whole thing out, because he . . .read more
What with all of the mass killings both here and abroad I thought these encouraging words from author Ben Stein might encourage you. He’s a breath of fresh air. I’m sorry I couldn’t find where the original was posted. If anyone knows let me know . . .read more
You would not believe the horror stories I’ve heard from couples about huge fights on vacations! Well, maybe you would believe me! Maybe you’ve had one of those disasters. Hey, I tell couples, “Leave your issues at home and go have fun . . .read more
One of the main reasons I became a marriage therapist is because my marriage is one of the things I’m best at! In thinking through my gifts and abilities and what do I have to offer the world, I kept coming back to the simple truth that my marriage was one of the best blessings in my life . . .read more
Part Three: Dating and Vacation Ideas in Summer: Planning VS Spontaneous; Example: Volga River and Decorah, Iowa
On an earlier blog this summer I posted about planning your vacations to be spontaneous. This takes the planning spouse and the spontaneous, go-with-the-flow spouses’ strengths into consideration. Vacation is a time to reconnect, to chill, to replenish your spirit, create memories . . .read more
Other than 9/11, the saddest moment in my adult life was seeing the other day the White House festively, triumphantly, lit in rainbow colors, like the President of the United States was give God the finger in a huge mocking way. Psalm 2 came immediately to mind. I shudder to think our blatant disregard for God’s created . . .read more
Over and over I’ve heard couples say about each other, “We’re not compatible. One of us is spontaneous and the other likes to plan. Those two just don’t get along. We’re just so different.” Well, hello! Yes, we are different. This would be a good thing! Nevertheless this idea that “We’re not compatible” is a sad . . .read more